We’re either getting better or worse. If I asked you, I bet you’d tell you want to get better. (There’s always the oddball that wants to get worse for some messed up reason, but let’s work with the majority here.)
Who do you want to become? Who do you need to become?
p.s. I don’t ask these questions for entertainment. You’d be better off to think about them, write them down and come up with answers.