The longer I live the more I realize how few people are emotionally intelligent.
Emotionally driven, emotionally charged – most people. Emotionally intelligent – few and far between.
People think they’re emotionally intelligent, but when I’ve seen them during intense times, crucible moments and high emotion circumstances, they’re 100% emotionally responsive.
Next time you’re in a high-emotion situation, see if you can have full presence of what everyone might be thinking and feeling in the circumstance and communicate objectively.
I’m an ambivert, both introverted and extraverted. When it comes to recharging, I need quiet time away from people and crowds. It has taken me years to find a balance and longer still to know how to maintain this delicate balance.
Recently I was in need of quiet time and blocked time off for it. All was good until…
Until people in our life have unexpected and urgent needs and sometimes we suck it up for another day, or two, or ten and realize that helping them sort their junk is more necessary than getting all the recharge we need.
I hope you know what you need to maintain the best you. I hope you figure out how to recharge when life is easy and your schedule is in your control, and when days are crazy and time and people aren’t in your control.
What if someone pegs you as something you’re not?
They will. Don’t worry about it.
From my 3 year old, to my husband, to my mentor, to my mastermind, to my Papa, to a podcaster – I still have a lot to learn.
The call to remain teachable throughout our life is imperative.
Have you ever noticed the most lovely elderly man or woman is the most curious about life?
Be where you are.
The older I get the more I realize the profound impact of this.
The past beckons us to cogitate, regret, berate, and stew on what could have been if only, while focus on the future often creates anxiety, worry and nervous energy about what if.
Being present mitigates all of those emotions because being with the exact moment doesn’t hold those emotions. It just IS.
How many present moments do we rob of their fullness because we linger in the past or push for the future?